The grass isn't always greener

I was speaking last night with a good friend of mine who is currently living and working in Edinburgh. Well, at least has been working up until recently when her contract with a financial institution wasn't extended. The GFC and all that. Now she's looking for work in a tough labour market.

In reflection on our conversation I made the assumption that just because she is living overseas she must be having a fun, grand time. It wasn't until she told me her situation that it brought back memories for me of job hunting in London and Vancouver. Of the loneliness and guilt of not enjoying the daily grind, but, feeling that one "should" be enjoying it simply because you are living overseas.

The grass isn't greener in the other paddock.

It always looks amazing, but don't forget there is a day to day reality. Whether the paddock you see is another job, occupation, organisation, city or country. Be wary of the green-tinted glasses. Don't squash the emotion - that excitement is what life is about - but keep a balanced perspective.