Why Job Search is Hard

Adaptation occurs in nature when the outcome of something is predictable. For example, take plants of the savannah areas of Northern Australia, where the main source of water is deep underground. The eucalyptus trees and hardy grasses synonymous with these regions adapt because of the predictable nature of the environment where the water table exists in perpetuity. With long tap roots, this predictability allows plant life to survive in the savannah, providing food and shade to its fauna.

But adapting to a job search, that is, becoming comfortable with it, is almost impossible because the process is unpredictable. A typical job search involves waking up in the morning to a phone call asking you to come in for an interview only to receive a rejection email that same afternoon. Adaptation is difficult as we never know what the outcome of our next activity will be. Will that next phone call land an interview? Will the next coffee meeting uncover your dream job? Will the next job from seek.com be a tedious one with selection criteria?

The uncertainty of not knowing what will happen makes it impossible to ever be fully comfortable with the process. It’s not that finding a job is impossible (yes, yours is out there), it's just that the “finding” part isn't always easy.