Obviously there are a range of issues that
can impact on how well people react to significant changes in their lives. Personality type, personal situation and
availability of support networks (such as close family and friends outside of
work) can all combine so that one person handles a difficult situation better
than another.
Some of these elements are within our
personal control and others less so. Trevor-Roberts
coaches use a range of strategies to help our customers focus on the issues
that are within their control, such as understanding how and why they react to
change. Some people have a more naturally positive outlook and choose to view
life-changing events, such as a retrenchment, as an opportunity. These individuals may be more comfortable
with change and risk.
Others see change as more of a threat. The way we react to change can be a result of
our individual circumstances, upbringing and past experiences. However, changing our internal dialogue and
focusing on the positives instead of the negatives, can make a major transition
less stressful.
How do you do this? The strategies are
different for each person. Some people find it’s good to use little reminders
in their home or work environment, like post it notes, screen savers and alerts
on their mobile phone. Others practice
pausing and reflecting before they react.
Some customers we work with find it helpful to meditate, exercise more
or simply spend time with positive people.
At the end of the day, whatever works for
you, works for you. There is a mine of
information available and theories abound about how to increase your positivity. We focus on telling our customers to
brainstorm and then actively seek out activities and people that make them feel
better and simply actively avoid things that bring them down. Sometimes it helps to write a list.
Improving the way you deal with change can help you to become more adaptable, more resilient and better able to take advantage of new circumstances in your team and workplace. It’s a key skill to develop. And the time to practice is now, so you can be ready to handle change well when it occurs.
Improving the way you deal with change can help you to become more adaptable, more resilient and better able to take advantage of new circumstances in your team and workplace. It’s a key skill to develop. And the time to practice is now, so you can be ready to handle change well when it occurs.
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